8.26.2009

First Day School

Dylan is going to school today. First day walking in the big school corridor hallway. Acting shy, so many new faces. I dropped him off at school; Dylan-Indy and me. We get in line to get the breakfast. He chooses Yogurt and granola, milk, and sliced apple. We sit down together on the benches till it's time to walk him to his new class.
The class is big, bright and very stimulating. He's in Ms. Cadore's class. I personally asked to take few hours off work, so I could spend time having Dylan get comfortable in his new class, without rushing.
I have arrange him to a new "day-care" or afterschool program with the Police Athletic League. It's awesome compared to his old VPK/daycare. PAL is of course being managed by polices and they have miles and miles of land for him to use the playground to run around, play basketball, and such. I truly feel that he will enjoy this whole experience.

10.17.2008

Best kakak

Indy has the best kakak in the world. Despite the whining, Dylan really loves his sister. Kemaren waktu habis jemput papa dari hospital, I had to drive so Dylan was the one sitting on the back of the car with Indy. Waktu adiknya nangis2... dia yang megangin susunya.

Saat udah sampe rumah, aku naik ke atas dulu naruh barang2, Anton nyusul di belakang. Dylan dan Indy masih di mobil, si Indy masih mimik susu. When I got back to the car, i told Dylan, ... udah nak, I hold the bottle ..
Dylan said, "It's okay mama, I will hold the bottle for baby Indy ... I'll wait here with her, I won't leave her alone"

See ..?

9.26.2008

Bola matamu

Bola matamu nak, .. bicara.
Tentang kebahagiaanmu, tentang kesedihanmu.
Kadang kau tak perlu ucap apa-apa, bisa kurasa semuanya di sana.
Maafkan mama yang tak sempurna.
I can't always do what you wish I would do.
But I promise I will do my best to keep you happy, love.

7.03.2007

You're My life

The highlight of my life:

Dylan is callling me. "Mama ... mama ... where are you mama?"
"I'm here nak.. di kamar". Dylan gets in the bedroom. Wrap his arms around my legs.
Then he said, "Mama, you're my life"

My heart aches with wonder.
And that's why ... life has so many different faces.
When one doesn't seem to measure up to your standard, listen & look closely elsewhere.
It's the moment that will go away, but the memory lingers.

2.26.2007

3 Years Look Me! Look Me!

Look Me! Look Me, mama!!
That's what he said all the time these days.

It's amazing how much he has grown.
Although most of the time I do pick up after him, now I can tell him to get me something. Closing the door, getting my phone and my shoes.

Whenever we're going out, Dylan ... you make sure mama gets her jacket. You go to our closet and look for my jacket, sweater, my hat.
"Your pi mama, your pi ..." (topi)
Then you step out the door and reach for my boot. "Here mama, it's your shoes".
Thank you sayang....

Uuhhh ... how could I don't feel grateful for having you, boy.

6.17.2006

Daily Life

Dylan,

Tiap hari akan kucoba ketikkan kisah harianmu. Mungkin tak ada yang terlalu penting, hanya kisah2 biasa. Namun ketika kutunggu kisah2 besar, akhirnya tak pernah kuketikkan apa2 untukmu lagi.

Hari ini nak, badanmu agak panas, you're a little cranky. I gave you tylenol 2 times, and you seem better. But somehow you don't want to eat much anyway.
Today we spend the lazy summer day at home mostly. You and me in bed, kitchen then bed again. Papa has to work today.

I shaved your hair 2 days ago, so hopefully you got some breezy air coming through your head. Wajahmu jadi tambah bulat, I can't help but kissing you. You're just too beautiful for me.

Tadi kita mandi bareng2, and you don't want to get off the tub, tapi nangis2 melulu, I don't know what to do. You were driving me crazy. So I picked u up anyway, you were still screaming when I took you to bedroom. Seeing your face so frustated, I felt so sad, I tried to hug you, but you refused and ran away from me. I was mad, but I couldn't anymore. I felt your rejection, I make you believe you make me cry .. you saw me sad and so you threw your arms in the air asking me to hold you. I didn't realize until then, while holding you, I had my silent cry.
I love you, son ...
I love you ...

5.03.2006

Sudah Lama

It's been a while, and my computer broke.
What can I do?

Dylan talks a lot now ... I can't believe he's growing up a lot.
He's a real human .. a little human being now.
Often he says ... Look, mama .. look ... birdie.
I know it's a simple silly thing, but it makes me happy :)

3.09.2006

Too Much

hi manies ...
I know it's kinda redundant, but I think
I LOVE U MUCH.


DY: O mai Tat (Oh My God)

hi hi hi :)

2.08.2006

No Otro Amor Asi

Hi sayang ...

It's been a while since i routinely blog your daily growth Dylan ...
I'm sorry I've been so tired lately .. and I've got no time.
Even now, I'm trying to squeeze in my 5-hour sleep so I can write this.
Now you can say .. "I love you, papa. I love you, mama"
Oh, it's so precious.

But the thing I love most, son ..
Is when you're asking me for this ... "Mama ... Hug"
Your arms spreads open, your body falls in mine ... :)
It's right here boy ... wide open for you.
Always, always open for you .. I'll never run out hugs for you.

Cada dia pienso enti, cada vez .. mi amor.
No otro amor asi.

(Every day I think of you, every time ... my love).
(No other love like this).

11.16.2005

DAYCARE TIME

Sejak tanggal 1 November, Dylan went to daycare. After a long thought and consideration, we finally decided that it's best if he went to school to see other kids his age. Habis daripada seharian di rumah terus sama papa, kerjanya malah ngawut2 melulu, kelihatan kan kalo dia bosen. Kalo pas keluar, begitu ngeliat anak2 gitu langsung Dylan nyamperin, ngajak ngomong2. Jadi sepertinya dia itu seneng sosialisasi gitu. Kan kasihan kalo dipingit aja di rumah.

Aku kesana ngeliat daycare abis pulang kerja dan ketemu ama direkturnya. She's so nice and descriptive. Aku juga bisa ngeliat ruangan anak2 .. tempatnya colorful dan banyak banget anak kecil lagi pada nyanyi2 and simpang siur .. hehehe...
Kelas toddler ini ada 2, di tempat yang Dylan mau masuk, kulihat anak2nya Chinese semua. Sementara di kelas satunya lebih diversed, ada white kids, Spanish, terus juga ada yang campuran gitu. I really preffered this diverse class, kayaknya lebih sreg aja kan supaya Dy lebih banyak ngomong English bukannya Chinese, karena gurunya sendiripun Chinese.
Setelah ngomong ama direkturnya, meskipun kelas itu penuh, dia bisa mindahin 1 anak ke yang kelas Chinese and Dy masuk ke yang temen2nya multi-cultural itu.
Terus di tempat ini juga nggak masalah kalo belum di potty-trained, teachernya mau bersihin dan ngajarin juga. Dikasih makan 3 kali, breakfast, lunch and dinner. Pokoknya atmosfernya enak deh, langsung kerasa cocok.


Ngeliat daycare yang satunya lagi nggak sreg karena anak2 yang 2 tahun dicampur ama anak 3 tahun. I just think that would be distracting. Meskipun di tempat ini bisa cuman 1/2 hari doang.

Ya deh, akhirnya tanggal 1 Nov Dylan dianterin sekolah ama papa. Mama nggak bisa nganterin Dylan's 1st Day School. Sedih juga sih bnernya ... tapi mau apa lagi. Kalo dipikir2 juga mungkin ini saatnya untuk peran Father lebih aktif.

Minggu pertama, cuman 1/2 hari doang ... jam 1 siang dijemput. Habis aku nggak tega rasanya kalo tiba2 dia langsung seharian gitu di DayCare ama strangers yang dia nggak kenal sama sekali. Jadi biar dia ada waktu untuk beradaptasi.

Minggu kedua, agak dimolorin dikit sampe jam 3 siang. Anak2 itu bobok siangnya jam 1-3. Jadi biar Dylan bobok dulu aja disana. Habis bangun siang udah seger kan enak nggak rewel, tinggal dijemput Papa.

Minggu ketiga, ini deh ... sampe jam 5:30-6:00. Jadi sekarang at least aku ada waktu 1 jam setelah kerja untuk relax atau jalan2 nggak perlu buru2 lari pulang ke rumah untuk switch jagain Dylan. Ini juga baru 3 hari jalan. Hari pertama di minggu ketiga ini, kita berdua, aku and hubby jemput Dylan!! Ihh, exciteddddd buangggeet. Pengen banget liat dia lagi ngapain. Anak2 dikasih dinner jam 5 sore, jadi pas jam 5 udah sampe sana, aku ngintip2 dari pintu ngeliatin dia lagi makan. Kan sayang kalo digangguin entar dianya malah nggak makan. Lucuuuuu banget.

Negative effectnya:
Pas 2 minggu pertama, setiap malam itu Dylan reweeeel banget. Pasti antara jam 1-4 pagi dia bangun 2 atau 3 kali, nuangis teriak2 sekitar 30 menit minta dinenenin melulu. Wah, pokoknya kepala mau pecah deh. Jadinya hubby and I suka kesel2 an sendiri. Terus kita akhirnya nyadar, kalo mungkin dalam masa transisi itu Dylan ngerasain separation anxiety. Karena kalo udah bangun tidur juga dia maunya neempeeel melulu (either to me or to his papa). Bener2 nggemblok, nggak mau lepas. Kasian banget sih kowe nak ... hiks hiks.

Positive effectnya:
Dy jadi tambah gendut sekarang. Makannya buaanyaaak banget. Aku sampe bingung. Dia bisa makan snack Pocky 4 bungkus, cheese, 2 chicken wings, anggur, mie ayam ... loh? akeh men ....
Mungkin karena sekarang banyak temennya, ngeliat mereka makan, juga dia ikutan makan. Wah, aku suennnneeeng banget, ... abis dia itu kan picky eater dan kurus gitu. Emang kadang anak suka susah dikasih makan sama orangtuanya karena pikirnya kali kapan aja gue mau pasti juga dikasi .. hehehe...

11.05.2005

Memoir

Dylan, ... cepat sekali kau tumbuh nak.
Sebentar lagi akan kau jelang 2 tahun menghirup udara bumi.
Wajahmu berubah, .. kadang kucari sisa-sisa wajah bayimu.
Masih samakah bibirmu yang mungil merekah itu.
Nose like a button.
Ya masih ada nak.
Tapi juga kulihat sosok yang mulai berkembang.
Lekuk kakimu, tengkuk lehermu, tambah tirus wajahmu.
Sekarang bisa kuletakkan sisi wajahku di dadamu.
Memelukmu, seolah kau yang merengkuhku.
Felt so good ...

Masih kuusapkan minyak telon di punggung dan perutmu.
Karena masih ingin kuhirup bau bayi melekat di badanmu.
Kadang kau menolak ... no, no .... you said.
Kadang kau diamkan saja, malah telungkup dan kaupejamkan matamu.

Nak, ... kau masih surga bagiku.

10.24.2005

Pindah

Yeaaay ... akhirnya bisa deh pindahan ke blog sendiri.
Tinggal nunggu finishing touch nya aja. Tapi kayaknya untuk sementara nggak akan go public dulu deh. Nunggu rampung.

Ok, that's good for now. :)

10.12.2005

Stay Home with Papa

Alrighty ... finally, well .. mama's going back to work. That's one reason why I haven't got a chance to update this or my blog. Pertamanya gue pengen kerja cuman part time doang. Jadi ada transisi buat dylan untuk adjustment. Tapi nyarinya syusaaah nek. Jadi one day, karena gue udah kesel banget, bete, di rumah melulu, eh iseng2 aja ke agency. Pertamanya nggak ada, .. tapi terus yang kedua ada. Dari jam 8-4 sore, M-F.
Karena sekarang Anton kerjanya sore-malem, aku pikir, .. ya udah deh, kayaknya pas banget jam kerjanya. Jadi gue nggak usah pake baby sitter. Pagi ampe sore biar papa yang jaga. Gue pulang, gantian jagain dylan. Habis kalo nitipin dylan ke bs, rasanya hati gue ini nggak tega banget, I mean a total stranger .. duh gak tegaaa banget deh gue. Lagian Dylan tuh paling nggak demen stranger (dia bukan tipe yang friendly gitu ama stranger). Kalo dijagain ama papanya sendiri kan dia udah familiar banget.

Pertamanya Anton juga agak2 "ngeri" sih buat jagain si "demolition derby" dylan. Tapi gue bilang, "Kenapa sih mesti takut?" Disini tuh udah biasa banget kalo bapak2 jagain anaknya. Coba aja liat di park tuh, bapak2 tampangnya sangar, tattoonya bejibun ... tapi dorong2 stroller, maen ama anaknya di park. Pokoknya pemandangan kayak gitu udah biasa banget deh di sini, .. mereka nggak malu dan benernya ngeliatnya juga malah kayak asyik gitu.
Lagian gue udah pengen belanja-belanji baju gichuuu .. hahaha. Ya kayaknya gimana aja kalo kita kerja sendiri tuh kan kita lebih enak ngatur financenya, karena kalo di rumah aja kan benernya bukan dapet duit ehhh tiap keluar pasti malah keluar duit.

Dan menurut gue (and my mom) akan lebih baik buat perkembangan psikis Dylan dan gue. Buat Dylan supaya dia nggak terlalu attached ke mama, dan buat gue sendiri supaya nggak suntuk banget di rumah aja nungguin suami pulang. Udah nggak ketemu adults, ... yaa tiap hari kerjanya beres2 rumah, pick-up toys (like 1 million times a day) ... and all other domestic stuff. That makes my brain bores to death.

Soooo, gue kerja dehh ... gue pikir kalo misalnya gue nggak tahan, juga bisa sign off sewaktu2, pokoknya dicoba dulu gitu.

Hari pertama,
.. bangun tidur Dylan nangis nyari mama. Tapi udah gitu dia nggak papa, cuma pas mau bobok siang katanya agak rewel lagi nyari2 mama.
Pas kerja, honestly, gue nggak terlalu kangen2 banget ama dia dan nggak ada rasa cemas tuh (OK, I lied ... I was a little bit worry and miss him). Karena mungkin sibuk jadi gue nggak terlalu kepikiran, tapi pas break, gue ngeliatin foto Dy ... nggak terasa air mata menggenang ... duuuh, dalam pikiran gue, Dylan lagi apa ya? Dylan sedih nggak ya? Cuman habis itu gue tepis perasaan sedih, karena kan Dy ama papa. Let them have the father and son moment.
Pas gue pulang, ... gue udah kuaaaangeeeeeeen banget. Masuk rumah tuh gue udah nyerbu banget nyari my little tod. Lagi di kamar nonton TV ma papa, ... gue udah pengen banget hug dia. Eh, bukannya menyambut, tampang Dy malah kayak bingung gitu ... (For a while, my heart felt like electrocuted with his unwelcome face). Disuruh hug and kiss juga cuek aja, malah nonton TV. Sueeebeeeeellll rekkk.
Gue udah teriak2 ... It's me mama, Dylan .. it's mama .... mama's home.
Papanya malah godain, ... Mama who? Mama who?
Gue dengan disabar2in bilang ... I know you're joking ... but please, kalo kamu kerja, aku nggak pernah ngajarin "papa who" to your son. Instead I'm telling him to welcome u once I heard your steps by the door ... How would you feel if I do "papa who" to you?
Of course dia dengan senyum2 merasa bersalah manggut2. (Nah loe!).

Hari Kedua
Like yesterday, bangun pagi juga nangis nyari mama dan katanya dy nangisnya sediiiiiih banget, sampe sengguk2 gitu, sampe papanya juga sedih dengernya. Terus tapi seharian udah nggak papa ... Dan pas gue pulang, baru buka pintu ... Dylan udah lari dari kamar ke pintu ... mama, mama ... en tangannya angkat ke atas gitu, minta dipeluk. Mukanya seneeeng banget ... langsung deh gue peluk and ciumin pipi ndutnya dia. .. Gitu dong nak, ... that's the kind of expression that I've been expecting. Dan of course, mata bulatnya mandang gue ... terus ngomong, "nenen, nenen .. mau nenen". hihihi .... Ok, dokie boy.

9.19.2005

Sleeping All on His Own

Yesterday, I started putting Dylan in his own room to sleep. To my surprise, he actually slept there without begging for nenen. At least for the second time around. I still had to give him the comfort at first. But when he woke up, I put him back to bed and sit on the chair. He was half asleep, checking me out if I still there. I sit still and he's drifted back to sleep. Like 5 seconds later, he tossed and turn, and peeked his way to see if mama still there. Yes, baby .. I'm still here.

Wow, no drama?
After about 10 minutes, I was kinda drifted to sleep myself on that chair. I just wanted him to feel comfortable in his own room. That I'd be there if he needed me. He was really in a deep sleep.
I moved my ass off quietly, heading to my room. I watched some TV, cause all the sudden I just didn't feel that sleepy anymore.
I'm so used having him by my side, I missed him by the time I finish the 30min show. Oh, how I wish I'd see his face on that door. Ironic, eh?

At around 2:30, the sleepiness hit me and I turned off the TV ... not much after that, maybe 15 min later or so, I heard a voice, .. I opened my eyes .. and saw a beautiful little face. There my son, on the edge of my bed, right in front of me. I scooped him right away, brought him up to bed and kissed him all over. Ohh, how I missed you son!

That sounds pathetic, cause after all sleeping on his own is definitely harder on me than him.

Right now, Day 2, 1:05 AM, he's sleeping in his room again. He was here before and woke up, I picked him up and carried him to his room. Wondering if it's the usual nenen time again. But as soon as his body touches the bed, there he is .. falling asleep again. Without struggle or whimper or nagging like he always does.

Wow ... that was easy.
I just have to be consistent, ... but I still miss him (a lot right now).
My son is a big boy now, eh.

9.02.2005

Problem Solving

Summer is almost over. So everyday, I try to bring Dylan to the playground/park.

Seperti biasanya dia suka banget maen swing ... dia akan bilang, yeaaaa ... yeaaaa ... sambil 2 tangan kecilnya pegangan di rantai swing. Terus dia ngomong, ... "enak, enak" .. while the swing flies in the air .. hehehe. Iri aku nak. Enaknya maen swing.
Dia juga udah bisa duduk di swing utk anak2 gede yang alas duduknya cuman dari 1/2 lingkaran ban doang (jd nggak ada sandarannya). Lucuuuuuu banget, .. asli kayak Tweety yang lagi nyantai2 bertengger di sangkarnya. Hihi ... my little tweety beld.

Terus tadi pas maen di park, ada anak co kira2 umur 3-4 tahun, lagi cari2 mainannya di sebelah bench kita. Dan dia ngajak ngobrol (biasa .. anak kecil), nongkrong lah dia disitu ... Dylan tuh paling seneng maen ama anak cowok seumur dia gitu. Dibelakang bench kita itu kayak grass area yang posisinya ngetrap (kira2 setinggi 1 meter lah). Dari bench, kita bisa langsung naik ke atas paving dan ke grass area itu. Ni anak cowok, naik ke situ. Dylan, tentu aja mau ikut2. Aku bilang ... "Jangan nak, jangan, duduk aja sini, nanti kamu jatuh". Beberapa kali dia nyoba naik, tapi selalu kutarik turun.

Finally setelah dilarang terus, ... bukannya naik, eh sekarang Dy malah turun dari bench ... lari ke play area (kukira dia mau balik ke swing lagi). Ternyata ... dia ke tangga untuk menuju grass area itu ... dia naik sendiri, terus nyamperin anak cowok tadi yang udah sedari tadi ada di atas sambil ngoceh2 ria.

Oh my goodness, asli gue heraaan banget, kok Dy tahu ya .. bisa lewat tangga situ untuk access naik. Padahal seumur-umur kita belum pernah naik tangga itu. Jadi intinya, dia udah belajar problem solving.

Situation: pengen maen ama that 'little' boy

Problem: dia ada di atas, dan aku nggak boleh naek ke atas lewat bench ama mama.

Solution: I'm gonna go around and take the steps to get to that boy! Voila!

Oh Dy ... I'm so proud of you. How marvelous you use your tiny brain. I'm so impressed. (Thank you God!)

-Yang gini2 nih, mama nggak pengen lupa ... buat mengingatkan juga, kalo satu jalan kebentur nggak bisa2, and instead of being discouraged and give up, we can always try the other way. It can also surprise other people! Makasih ya nak.-

8.22.2005

Music to Little Soul

Hey little one!
Sing and dance.
I hope you never lose that.


Dylan, my 22 months old son, loves music. And I love that fact. It's obvious that music soothes, energizes, relaxes, and inspires him.
If he's overtired, the "new-age" music will calm him down. He's falling asleep more easily. If he's cranky (in the car), we just have to put his ABC song, and a grin will show up on his face.

When he watches the TV show, he'll dance to the beat .. not just kiddie song, Rock n Roll, Disco, or Rap just do the same justice. He'll shake his head and his two little hands go up and down in the air. He'll spin around in circle.

I just notice recently, ... everytime Barney is almost ended, they always sing the .."I love you, you love me, we're a happy family .." song.
And everytime .. Everytime! he hears this song, he'll look for me, .. It doesn't matter what I do, he'll take my hand and he says "up, up". I have to drop and stop whatever I do, cause if I don't, .. he'll stand there persistently shaking my hand. So I give up, then still holding my hand he will lead me to the TV.

Why? Cause Barney and friends do this little dancing, hugging and kissing. And my son wants to dance, hug, and kiss me. His face is so happy and fulfilled. When the song ends, he lets go of my hand and let me back to whatever I did before.

Thanks for giving me that, son.
To remind me, that sometimes ... I have to drop everything I do just to dance, hug and kiss you.

P.S. I love this ritual!

8.08.2005

To Splish Splash Waterpark




Finally, bisa ngajakin Dylan berenang!!
I've been dying to take Dylan to the pool. It's sooo hard to find a swimming pool in NY. Either you have to pay membership or you have to be a residence, the latter usually happens in Long Island Neighbourhood. Membership kayak di YMCA juga mahal banget, about $850/year, lagian kolamnya juga buat bukan maen2 tapi lebih untuk swimming lesson dan biasanya indoor. Nggak asyik banget lah. Heran deh, ... padahal dulu di Indo, berenang minimal seminggu sekali dengan gampangnya ... fasilitas banyak juga bagus2. Kadang emang NY sucks ..

Kemaren tgl 27 Jul, di suatu hari Rabu yang panaaaas banget (about 96F), kita nekad deh ke Splish Splash Waterpark di Riverhead, LIE exit 72, yg kira2 kalo nge-drive sekitar 1.5 jam-an dr rumah. Gedeee banget tempatnya, banyak banget attraction, tapi yaa berhubung ama Dylan, kita terbatas banget bisa maennya. Padahal nggak weekend gitu juga rameee banget, .. ada Kelly Ripa juga ama anak2nya. Anton yang lihat sih, bukan aku, pas Dylan and I changed clothes.

Rides yang kita coba: Octopus Pool, Elephant Slide, Pirates Cove, 3 Little Body Flumes, Monsoon Lagoon, ama Lazy River.

Pertamanya kita nyobain di Octopus Pool, ada swing setnya buat infant duduk di atas pool. Wah, Dylan begitu dimasukin air, kayak kucing .. langsung mau lompat keluar ... pokoknya dia takut banget deh. Gimana nih, ... diajakin maen water kok malah nggak mau? ... Ya udah, gantian terusnya, ama papa ... maen di kolam slide .. eh dia seneng banget. Dua kali slide ama papa dan yang ketiga kita bertiga barengan di slide yang gedhe di tengah .. wiiiiii ... jadi inget masa kecil .. haha.

Udah dari situ balik lagi ke octopus pool, mulai deh, dia berani main swing nya, malah nggak mau diturunin ... mintanya diayun-ayunin terus, sambil kaki kecilnya maen2 di air. Enak ya, nak?

Dylan paling seneng pas maen2 di bagian yang nyemprot2 .. hehe .. nggak tau namanya apa. Kayak Fountain yang nyemprot2 dari lantai, gantian nyemprot2nya .. ada kira2 9 spot di suatu square gitu. Dia lari2 setiap sekali ada yang nyemprot, maksudnya mau nangkep ... lari sini, lari sana ... sambil ketawa2, ... nggak ada capeknya. Seneeeeng banget mukanya, ...basaaah semua (namanya disemprot pasti basah lah yauw .. hehe). Anton and I just sit by the stone bench ngeliatin dia, rasanya seneng banget ngeliatin dia begitu enjoying the moment. Sayang kamera ditinggal di locker, jadi nggak ada foto2 pas dia di situ. Orang-orang yang lewat pada ketawa2 ngeliatin Dylan yang begitu riang gembiranya .... bikin seger deh.

Terakhirnya yang pas di Lazy River, Dylan kedinginan, rada2 shivering gitu .. habis di Long Island tuh kan agak dingin biarpun siangnya panas banget, maklum lokasi countryside banget. Aku pelukin dia yang cuman pake little swimmer pampers doang .. duh, kasiannya, ... udah agak kering, eh... kesiram air lagi pas kita lewat di daerah air terjun ... Ya deh, habis itu kita pulang. Anyhow, it was a realllly nice day. Summer should be like that :)!

7.19.2005

20 Months, So Far

Simple things for adults look astonishing when done by toddler.
The world is a new discovery for the simplest things.

1. He can put his hands into the sleeves once I put the shirt over his head. Sometimes he missed though :) And if he's holding something in his one hand, he'll transfer the object to the other hand before putting his arm into the sleeve. I never teach him that, he just do it naturally.

2. He can open any bottle cap or change the bulb !! Yes, he's mastering the skill of twist. He likes to unscrew the bulb and then proudly show it to me. Yeah, yeah, you look pretty handy to me, son.

3. He's imitating his daddy snoring style. Bisa niruin papa ngorok, gayanya: tiduran di atas bantal, kepalanya noleh ke samping terus ngeluarin suara ... krookk, kroook ... huahahaha ... kapok nggak kowe paaa, ditiruin anaknya!! huehehehe ..

4. Sudah bisa bilang kata2 yang terakhir kita ucapkan ke dia. He can say aak/eek (poopoo) which he says when i change his diaper. Habis aku suka tanya, Dylan eek ya? terus dia pegangin pantatnya sambil bilang, eek.

5. He likes to "help" around the house. Whenever I cook, he'll sit on the bar stool by the countertop, next to me ... He'll watch, then he'll try to grab the spoon and "help" me mix. Well, okay .. that always ends up with me yelling at him actually. But i have to admit it was quite fun.

6. He can open drawers, he's very interesting with anything new. His little fingers are powerful tools now. He loves the excitement when he finally gets to see what's inside, then ... things start flying on the air and the floor will be covered by random stuff. Oh my, oh my ..

7. Yes, he is strong. He can pick and lift up a roll of carpet runner. He did it when we were in Target. I knew he was trying to take it off the shelf, then a lady said, "wow, he's strong. he can pick up the carpet". I said, "he's trying to". She said, "No, he picked it up, I saw him". Of course, right then, he's doing it again ;)
He can pick (then drag around the house) my pressure cooker (8 pounds) which even quite hefty for me. Ok skinny boy, you prove that you have some muscle :)

8. He likes to put anything metal in his mouth (keychain, keys, nail! yeah nail, coin, and anything else that has metal in it). As much as I try to keep these things out of his reach, there's always a way from him of getting it. He got under the sofa, little nook, in the basket ..
The thing is, he knows that he's doing something forbidden. He stares at me with his mouth plumps up and wait for my reaction. When i say, "Give it to me Dylan", he spits it out from his mouth and give it to me, or else he gave me that devilish smirk then run away .. doh.

9. He can say hiiiiiiii (not hi) when he looks at his feet and they got dirty.

10. He can drink from regular glass/cup like an adult. He also drink soup by zipping it from the edge of the bowl (yeah, you found shortcut, eh?).

11. He knows how to ask for Elmo DVD ... he says"mama, ... nanana ... naaaa *singing*". I teach him how to push the Play button everytime he FF or REV by messing the dial button.

12. He loves fish, ... he goes fish, fish, fish .... then he sits on the little stool in front of the aquarium and poking on the glass. He likes doggie and birdie, .. he goes ... wuuuffff with his littlest voice (so cute).

13. He loves staring at the moon at night while we are waiting outside on the patio for papa to come home. He's mesmerized by the glow and the shape of it.

14. Sometimes he'll throw stuff in the garbage can. I found some dollar bills in the trash .. hemmm, I wonder how much more he threw that i didn't know?

15. He likes to sing, he's really singing ... with his own words and rhyme ... patiputa puta laaaa .. amaniya ... and the other favorites are Row Row The Boat and If You Happy and You Know It, then he stomps his feet and spins himself till he loses his balance.

16. He likes to see photographs of daddy's family. He says .. nee-nek, nee-nek ... then he says papa .. papa .. pointing to uncle Oki, who really looks like papa (yes son, they look kinda the same).

17. He likes to get involved with anything we do. When we're painting his room, the paint got all over his hand cause he played with the roller. When we try to put his table and chair together, he used his crayon as imaginary screwdriver. When i fold laundry, he will unfold them. When I sweep the floor, he'll grab the broom and dustpan then try to sweep the carpet (wrong place, son).

18. He moves to the beat of music, he'll shake his head and dance. Oh .. you are so young and free... You even make your papa not ashamed to dance .. hahaha ...

19. He climbs the stair like a pro. Now he even knows what those handrails are for, it's just scarry how he manages to hold on to them but his body is hanging out of the edge of the stair. Please son, just climb it up, don't walk on it like an adult, soon you can do it, but not now.

20. He loveeeeees ball, everytime we go to Target, there's this rack that has bunch of different kind of balls. i will always try to avoid pass through there, cause he'll play there forever. But the other day, he got a hold on to a Spalding Basketball and won't let go. It's the real big, heavy, NBA playing ball. He insisted to give this ball a home. He didn't trust anybody to get this ball out of his hand. Not me, not the cashier ... so it was a struggle to scan the price :)

Not really 21. Papa just woke him up when Dy started to fall asleep. He was a little shocked and said mama .. mama .. with scarry face. I said, "it's okay Dylan ... it's okay .. itu papa stupid". Then he looked at me and pointed his finger to papa and said "stupid...".
O O, I better watch what I said from now on (though it was kinda funny though .. hehehe).

7.06.2005

Suspicous Painting on The Wall





Somebody's been drawing on my wall. Hmmmm ....I think I know who did it.

Evidence 1:



Evidence 2:


Evidence 3:


Evidence 4:



There is no eyewitness, but I'm pretty sure the one in the white shirt is the suspect.

PUNISHMENT: Non-stop kisses all over his belly till he giggles and wiggles and say "aduhh ... aduuhh".

CASE CLOSED.

6.10.2005

One, Two

Yeah, Dylan sudah bisa berhitung ... tapi cuman sampai angka 2 saja .. One, two ... One, two, .. gitu katanya berkali2. If I teach him to say One, two, three, four ... he goes, one, two .. *stop*, blabla .. nggak tau ngomong apa, .... abis three and four susah kali ya nak? :) hehehe ...

Oya sekarang Dylan udah bisa ngupil *hihihihi ...*, telunjuknya satu dimasukin hidung sambil ngomong, mama mama mama maaa maaa ... *suaranya jadi bindeng* .. terus dia ketawa2 sendiri, kali denger suaranya kok berubah.

Terus apalagi yah?
Kosakata dia sekarang:


one, two, dengyu (thank you), chachacha, apa, dis dis (this), dis one (this one) *sembari nunjuk apa yang dia mau*, ini siapa (sambil telpon), papa, mama, wuuufff (woof for doggy), wow wow wow genly (row row row boat, gently down the stream) *sambil nyanyi*



Tumbuhlah nak, tumbuh kuat, sehat dan pintar ya.